Does freedom mean the right or liberty to do anything,
anywhere and whenever you feel like? I don’t think. Remember the saying that
the liberty of one ends where the tip of the nose of another begins. We are
social beings and are bound, morally and legally, to respect societal norms.
You can enjoy your rights as an individual as long as you are totally within
your personal space but once you step out into the social set-up, you have to
follow certain basic rules and ethics which must not be treated as an
infringement of your personal freedom.
I am strongly against ‘moral policing’ which I believe
amounts to taking the law into one’s hands. It is usually done by some groups
that derive power from some source and consider themselves as apostles of
culture and tradition. Such people need to be dealt with by the law enforcing
agencies. There is a limit to which one can, as an individual or group,
interfere in the matters that form part of another’s life. No one has the right
to tell us what is to be done but at the same time we can’t claim that no one
has the right to question whatever we do in public. To be precise, one must
refrain from doing in public something that has to be done privately. The question is not whether others are
affected by a public act of yours; the question is whether your act tantamount
to violation of social ethics.
We must learn to respect each other and must be adaptable to
different opinions and must not try to force our views on others. There is a
growing intolerance in the country and the world which need to be controlled and curbed but
then being intolerant to intolerance or resorting to unethical means to protest
is not at all a solution. Let us lead lives peacefully by respecting ourselves
and others too; well knowing our boundaries and limits